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20 great things about 2023

A great year is ending. Since 2020, I’ve been posting 20 things that have been making my year wonderful.
I’m really pleased to see that there’s a little bit of everything. This time, even food made it. Whoa. At the end of the day, experiences are what matters most. I’m glad I could capture most of them.
So here’s 20 great things about 2023.
- Celebrating my son’s second birthday
- Having my mom around for two months
- Creating art with my mom
- Playing my mom’s favourite childhood game with her
- Writing 100 pages of my new book
- Having fun in my writing classes and meeting some great and inspiring women.
- Seeing Depeche Mode live for the third time in my lifetime.
- This specific video from the concert. You can actually hear me scream!
- Enjoying Memento Mori, especially My Favourite Stranger and Soul with Me.
- Reading Eva Luna by Isabel Allende
- Reading Untamed by Glennon Doyle
- Getting to know Kurt Kobain through his personal diaries
- Trips to the zoo on Sundays
- Paul McCartney’s lyrics
- Tuna and salmon poke bowl
- Janet Jackson’s music
- Rediscovering some old songs I’ve always loved: Happy Together, Kiss the Rain, I Can Dream About You, The Hustle, Reasons, Hold Me Now, Don’t You Forget About Me.
- Sade’s music. Anything she sings is powerful.
- Alicia Keys’ music
- Discovering Neo Soul and Nu Urban Jazz.
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Unos versos para ti #LetrasDesnudas

Los textos de este blog pertenecen a la autora Alicia Strathern.
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Navidad #LetrasDesnudas

Ah, esa época
de canciones de nieve
y noches adelantadas
con leche y galletas.Ya dejé mi carta
bajo el árbol.
Espero despierta.
Espero el milagro.Aunque no haya puerta.
Los textos de este blog pertenecen a la autora Alicia Strathern.
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Failure Culture: Reframing Mistakes to Grow As a Professional

Failure culture is an uncomfortable topic in any professional setting. Even if you are an entrepreneur. There’s an inner voice that constantly says “you can’t afford mistakes”, “defeat is not an option.” There’s a constant pressure to succeed almost flawlessly.
If you were to reframe failure, though, your work would gain more depth. In any creative process, missteps, ups and downs, and losses are bound to happen. That’s the nature of any initiative.
I remember the time when I was discussing marketing strategies with a former manager. We were going to launch a new product, and we had clear goals to reach. As we were wrapping up our meeting, I said: “If some parts of the strategy don’t go as planned, then we’ll learn a lot.” His response was unforgettable: “Yeah, but let’s try not to make any mistakes. We can’t do that.”
Failure culture is almost taboo. After careful planning and investment of time and resources into a business, why would you welcome it? You are aiming for great results. However, it’s worth reflecting on two key factors: the input that learning experiences can provide and the idea of embracing discomfort to grow as a person and as a professional.
As President Franklin D. Roosevelt once said: “a smooth sea never made a skilled sailor.”
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Extraños #LetrasDesnudas

¿Y si no somos tan extraños?
Qué tal que nos teníamos
que volver a encontrar
en atmósferas adversas.Para sembrar dudas.
Para cimbrar estructuras.
Para recordar
vidas inexploradas.¿Y si desafiamos la inercia
para desentonar con el mundo?Me das un no
con cara de “sí
pero no puedo.”
Y así yo no juego.Yo juego
a desafiar
y a cambiar
de opinión.Me extraña
que tú,
con espíritu similar,
te metas cizaña.Extraño.
Los textos de este blog pertenecen a la autora Alicia Strathern.
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Nocturnos #LetrasDesnudas

Búscame por las noches.
Abrázame a hurtadillas
para no despertar a nadie.
Los besos más discretos……son lo más ricos,
los más inolvidables.
Como tú y tus manos,
tu ritmo infinito.Me penetras con palabras,
con tu imagen viva
en mi imaginación traviesa.
Eres incontrolable.Eres omnipresente.
Por los siglos de los siglos.Los textos de este blog pertenecen a la autora Alicia Strathern.
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“Te Amo” #LetrasDesnudas

“Te amo”
como rutina.
Palabras perico
para rellenar silencios.“Te amo”
como inercia.
Si no se pronuncia
algo se olvidó en el libreto.¿”Te amo”
significa algo?
Más allá de la costumbre
y de la voz cansada.Háblame sin enigmas.
Los textos de este blog pertenecen a la autora Alicia Strathern.
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Paraíso #LetrasDesnudas

¿Pues qué no el paraíso es un instante?
Donde estás tú con nadie y a gusto.
¿Que debería ser permanente?
Sólo si ya partiste de este mundo.
¿Existe?
En la medida que lo creas. ¿Tú qué crees?
Los textos de este blog pertenecen a la autora Alicia Strathern.
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Momentum as a Mindset: Make it a Habit and Become Unstoppable

Momentum is a mindset. It goes beyond the sum of actions to produce a desired result. It’s a habit. It’s a commitment to create impact for the long term. At the same time, it’s hard to find a precise definition. Paraphrasing Solomon Timothy, this concept can be a broad term whose meaning varies depending on the context.
In sports, it’s a great play or a struck of luck. In music, it’s taking a basic idea and eventually turn into a structured song. The best example that comes to mind is Paul McCartney composing Get Back out of the blue.
While Paul makes it look easy, it is important to state that building momentum may take longer than expected. Dan Cumberland, author of The Meaning Manifesto, uses a great analogy to explain how the process works. I’m breaking it into four bits:
- Momentum is like a merry-go-round: it will take a good amount of force to get it moving.
- You have to push with everything you have to get the first few inches of rotation.
- As it gains speed, less force is required to keep it moving.
- Once you have momentum, it is much easier to keep going.
It doesn’t matter how slowly you go as long as you do not stop, as philosopher Confucius once said. That’s why starting small is a great decision.
